between thing 1 and thing 2, which would you choose to spend the rest of your life with?
let me introduce you.
thing 1 is compatible with you only in your values and your beliefs. the values that are most important to you, the things you feel in the core of your being. you are the same page as thing 1 in that respect. you could talk for days and never disagree about anything that is important you.
thing 2 is compatible with you physically. when they walk into the room, you feel it in your blood. they want the same as you sexually. there is a static charge that shoots from you to them and back again.
thing 1 is not compatible with you physically. in any sense of the word. you are not physically attracted to thing 1.
thing 2 does not share your beliefs and values.
you can only choose one. who do you choose?